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anonymous
writes:Hi. I am 16 years old. I have a close female friend who I have very strong feelings for. We met last year around April or May, and were going out for some time. It has been about 3 months since the last time we hooked up, however, we have remained close friends and still are. Today, she came over, by herself, to my house and watched a movie with me. While we were watching the movie, she started flirting with me and getting close with me, like laying down on my lap and putting her hands on my leg and such. Now normally, I would have no problem with this at all. However, she currently has a boyfriend who could deal me some serious damage if I decided to fool around with her, even though I've known her twice as long as he has. Anyway, I don't know how to react to this. She seems like she likes this guy a whole lot, more than the other boyfriends she's had.. but then she makes a pass like that.. It confuses the hell out of me. I don't think I should ask her about it. I don't even know if she was really pulling a move on me, but it sure seemed like it. To be honest, I really love her, and I would do anything for her. What should I do?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 I think she was leading you on abit while you were watching the film, which is wrong as she has a boyfriend.
I woulden't encourage this girl, as you said her boyfriend could do you some damage. This is not a circle you want to move in.
Stay friends with her, but i woulden't have her over to watch a movie, at least not while she is with this guy anyway.
If she was your girlfriend would you like to think she was over some other guys house with her hand on their leg, getting close to them ect. Whats to say she woulden't do this to you?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Ask her to explain what her game is! She has a bf and is carrying on like this with you. You need to keep right away from this one. I just think there is trouble ahead for you if you carry on with this. What happens if her bf finds out? You need to keep away.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Ask her to explain what her game is! She has a bf and is carrying on like this with you. You need to keep right away from this one. I just think there is trouble ahead for you if you carry on with this. What happens if her bf finds out? You need to keep away.
Take care
xx
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