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writes:I've been dating a girl for 11 months. We hangout usually tuesday night, 2 hrs, thursday for 5 hrs, sat after 6 and all day sunday if i dont work sundays. She says she needs to hangout with me at least 5 times a week or it wont work. When we do have the time to hangout she complains about it and is very negative and crabby. She says I should make more time even though I tell her i go to college full time and work full time. She still thinks i should make time if i loved her enough. I think 20 hrs a week average isnt bad. She says she can't handle it anymore and wants me to figure out if im committed enough. Even though I do romantic things for her all the time and I havent had a guys night out for 6 months because all the time I have free I hang out with her. I personally think shes selfish and insecure and needs constant reassurance. She says its my commitment problem. what should I do? Should I dump her? or try to somehow get to her simple minded brain that what she wants is not logical.?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Find a girlfriend who appreciates you more. Theres more to this than not spending enough time with her, she sounds very controlling. She may be afraid that you will cheat on her so wants you in her sights all the time.
You will probably find her last boyfriend(s) cheated on her so its made her like this.
She should realise that you have your own life too, and 20 hours a week is not too bad.
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