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writes: Hi.I recently posted, but i also have a different issue, so i decided to ask another question.Right.Im 14. Theres a girl at school who i really.. really like, she really likes me too. We told each other but her friend said i dont think she wants a boyfriend at the moment. Fine with me, i can wait.Though when we were telling each other who we liked over the phone she mentioned she liked 2 people, but one more than the other. She in the end told me that she liked me, and vice versa.We've been meeting up, but tomorrow she is going to see the other boy she likes. Though she did tell me that she supposedly likes me more than the other boy.Last night she wanted me to phone her in the morning. Although the other boy said to her "I'll phone you at 9(am), so be up!". So the next morning, he phones at 9 which practically wakes her up. She said that he was like at the volume of shouting. She hung up, basically making a sign that she didnt want him to call back. Though 2 minutes later he did. She hung up again, and he didn't phone back.When she was telling me this she said he was an idiot to do that.According to her i'm the sweetest guy ever. Ive told her shes perfect to me, ive told her shes beautiful, ive told her basically everything i feel about her aswell as that i cant stop thinking about her. She knows she'll have to pick one of us at some point, but i told her id rather you choose someone your happy with.I forgot to mention, the other boy is her ex boyfriend. He told her shes was the best kiss of his life.So basically, i dont know if im in love to be honest. But i just want to know, how can i tell if she would choose me over him (which i really hope =) )Thanks. Would prefer it if i got an answer asap since i do see her quite often, more often than the other boy.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hey, good on you for being so supportive!
If I was that Girl I'd choose you. Putting her feelings before your own. You've shown her by saying "go with the person you're happiest with" that you are willing to suffer to make her happy, which rings up some major brownie points!
Be as friendly to her as you can, show her you care, show her you think she's special and let things go on from there!
Mail me back to tell me how it goes! With you all the way and hope you turn out happy. All the best,
Phebes
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reader, kellyO +, writes (6 April 2006):
 Dearie, just be her friend for now and see her everything goes.i think you are very mature the way you are handling everything. from your posting u said " you would rather be happy if she chooses someone she is happy with". i think you are the perfect gentleman and if she doesnt pick you it will be her loss really.
I would also advise you to have other close friends to hang out with too. This doesnt mean u shouldnt hang out with her just that u should have loads of other friends as well.
Take care and goodluck
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