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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello. Me and my girlfriend had been together since I was 16 and she was 15. I am now 24 and she 23. We were very much in love with each other and had a very healthy sexual life until we broke up August 2007. We kept in contact and decided August last year that we would get back together. For some reason she doesnt want to have sex, we've talked about it and we can't seem to understand why. We have tried it a few times but she just doesn't like it any more. During foreplay she always orgasms but during sex I would sense that she doesn't actually like it. In that year apart she had another partner with whom she had regular sex with. All sorts of questions are flying through my head i'm so confused. She tells me how much she loves me and that she does still want to be with me but she just doesn't have the desire to have sex no more. We tried new things to change it up but it doesn't seem to work and this is starting to affect out relationship :(Does anyone know what the problem could be please?
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (16 January 2009):
maybe she had bad expereinces with her ex?? it might not be that he pleasured her more instead it could be the opposite. i'm sure that if she didnt have feelings for you, then she wouldn't be back with you:)
but it does sound like there is a problem. maybe you2 need to re-kindle the relaitonship. like be romantic, wait for a long time before having full on sex.That way i'm sure she will enjoy it , sure that seems hard but if u2 just foreplay maybe she can feel more at ease whenyou2 do it.
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