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male
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36-40,
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writes: hello evrey im 19 single but im in love with sum 1 special. she says she doesnt like me no more iv pushed her away from me. but sayin that we was together for bout a year she knows i love her more than anythin.i told her il put my hands up for rushin but she dosnt care wont speak 2 me at all she promised me that she aint met no 1 else while we arnt together so what is it then. coz i cant get over her nearly 3 months now n she lives bout 50 miles away to but i dont care just want 2 see her and she aint havin non of it. any gurls no how shes feeling and what i could do now.thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, sexi +, writes (4 July 2007):
Hi, you sound like a really sweet guy. The fact that she is just brushing you off, i dont think you should be treated like that. Like i said you sound sweet so dont ponder on this girl if she doesnt want the same thing as you. Go out and meet new people and i am sure you would find some that loves you and appreciates you. Im sure after some time when you move on then she would realize what she is missing out on.
Good Luck, Mail me if you wanna chat!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 July 2007):
It doesn't matter how much you love her hunni if she doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you. It's harsh I know and we all go through it.
Relationships sometimes just don't work out. She may not have met someone else but thought the relationship was going nowhere or didn't see a future with you. She may not of been able to cope with the distance anymore.
If she doesn't want to see you then you need to back off and leave her alone. You can't keep pestering her. It won't help you get over her if you don't. You need to cut all ties with her and walk away. It'll feel like the hardest, most painful thing in the world at the time but trust me things will get easier.
I can't say how she's feeling as I don't know her or why she ended it. All you can do is leave her alone to live her life and you live yours. You can't make her be with you as much as you want to be with her!
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