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writes: Well, Me and my gf have been dating alittle over a year now, im 22, he's 21.2 weeks ago she broke up with me, she says she need some time to be alone and that she wants some space, and that she lost feelings for me....I really love her, i still do, i would do anything for her. I've tried to patch things up with her, asking her to give me another chance and that we can start all over again and that i will change for her.She said that she will think about it, but right now she just wants to be alone...Ever since we broke up, i can't seem to do anything anymore. All i do is think about her and missing her. When we where still dating, she would go over to my store ( i own a female clothing store) and get free clothes and stuff... The problem is, after we broke up, she is still demanding me to get her some clothes...She's always texting me or calling me saying how she has no money to spend, and no clothes to wear and asks if i can get some for her?...Thing is, ever since we broke up, she's been really mean to me. always telling me to do things for her and everytime i see her, she would be yelling at me saying things like " You never do anything i tell you to do, can't you do anything right? you can't even do anything right! You just have to piss me off don't you? you always just have to piss me off!".She would say something similar to that, sometimes worse. What made her say all this? well because she told me to bring her some clothes, i would bring her some.... But then she starts yelling at me for not bringing the ones she saw last time (while we were still dating), i really couldn't remember which ones.... so i bought the ones she would of liked...WEll.... sorry for this long long post,.... but i just have this feeling of her using me.... well, i know she is using me.... lol But i really love her and i really want her back... even though she is treating me like shit right now...when we where dating it was completely different...I just want some advice....Im confused and lost....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): i really hate to say this, but she is using u and it doesnt sound like she is going to take u back. not the way that she i treating u. why be with u when she can still get what she wants. she is behaving pretty nasty. i dont even know why u would want to be with someone who is taking advantage of ur good nature and putting u down. u sound like a very great guy and anyother women would be happy to have u. there is no reason to wait until she is ready. i know ur feelings are very strong for her, but ur going to be the one who ends up even more heart broken, and not to mention just plain old broke. let her handle her own buisness and finances. that is the decision she made for herself. and u can just wait for her to come crawling back to u, if u still want her that is
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): Oh come on have some dignity mate! LoL!
do you concider youself a worthwhile humen being? or maybe you like being treated this way? you want her cos she doesnt want you its a common mind trick maybe its time to gently remind her she dumped you so little favors are out Im afraid if you dont want her thinking your some sort of desprate case who'll be her little slave so Its time to hold yourself with dignity darling!and show her with your actions that your independent cool guy who is sure of himself bulid your self esteam with books and hypnosis CDs cos she must be knocking it with the way shes treated you dont take this anymore thats the only way she'll respect you Take care
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