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writes: My girlfriend who I love a lot was out the other night with me and was really drunk and did a threeway kiss with her friend who was a girl and the friends boyfriend. what should i do? she has said sorry and is upset but what should I do im pretty angry
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2015): I agree with Code Warrior completely, if you want to carry on with her you must forgive her, if you can't see yourself doing that then move on.My ex boyfriend cheated on me and I wanted to end it because I really couldn't forgive him and he just kept on and on at me to stay with him. I should have just dug my heels in and not given him a second chance. I was upset for a long time and in the end he got angry with me that I wouldn't let it go.I did tell him what I would be like mind, he just didn't want to listen. It's no good using this as ammo whenever you feel mad at her, you have to let it go if you want to stay together.If you were out with them when this happened how did this even happen? The friends boyfriend sounds like a bit of a slimeball doing that when you were there.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (15 December 2015):
You are right to be angry, this is still cheating. If you want to forgive her then I think she needs to earn your trust back. First off you say she was pretty drunk, this is still not an excuse, but maybe she can start making it up to you by staying away from alcohol, if alcohol causes her to cheat she should give it up, if she is not willing to well then I would suggest that she is not that serious about you.
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