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writes:How can I convince my girl that it doesn't bother me that she has a large vagina. Out of all the lovers I have had I have to admit I have never seen anything quite like it. But it doesn't bother me in the slightest, she is beautiful she has the most amazing curvy figure and it's the best sex I have ever had. Is it because previous lovers have remarked on her oversized genitalia? She has alluded to this a few times asking me if I can feel anything when having sex. I try not to focus on it as I don't want her to be even more self conscious but I love her vagina the way it is and can't get enough of it. She's even talking about an operation to reduce the size - this is madness!I just shrug it off when she gets self conscious but I'm wondering if I should tell her more how much I love her larger size, or will that just make her feel worse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Just one thing to add, if she mentions it, dont just shrug it off, reassure her, tell her how you feel then and there, thats when she is thinking about it and when its bothering her. I get really concious of my tummy, and if i mention it, my bf always does this snoring thing and pretends like he hasnt heard, and it makes me feel like he is just putting up with my flaw or something. I asked him and he said its cuz he loves me and h thinks im beautiful and doesnt want to hear me be critical about myself but thats not how it comes across!!
Hope this helps lol, just a thought!
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reader, love-him  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 HEY!!
You need to tell her that they are ALL DIFFERENT!! She shouldnt get an operation, especially not because of how people have reacted in the past. Shopw her you love everything about her, and continuously tell her!!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 Just tell your girl that you love her as she is, and then make love to her with passion. You sound like a great guy, and hopefully she will learn that. Yes, tell her you love the way it is, repeatedly if necessary.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (28 February 2008):
 Hi,
In ancient Babylon people worshipped the vagina , your girlfriend would be a Queen. We live in such superficial times, if a man has a big dick he is Mr popular but a girl with a large vagina is ridiculed. At college I remember a few of the guys making snide remarks at a girl in my class who according to one of them ( who slept with her) "could fit a bus in her". I thought they were a cruel bunch of small dicked bastards.
The vagina is god's greatest gift to mankind, the bigger the better I say! Nothing turns me on more than seeing how spread open my girl's vagina is after sex. But if your girl is a bit self conscious I probably wouldn't mention size as the thing that turns you on, just keep reaffirming how beautiful she is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Simply tell her you wouldn't have it any other way. Tell her what you just told us! :) The next time she gets self-conscious, tell her you love every inch of her body, and that the sex is so amazing you can hardly take it. Tell her she's beautiful and sexy. I wouldn't mention the 'larger size', but just how her body is perfect to you.
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