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writes:My girlfriend of 4 months is really good looking!!but im worried she is moving in with three guys she doesnt know!!!Should i be worried? Will she find them more attractive, or fall for one of them, they must fancy her that is why they gave her the place, i know it Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Firstly, if she is that good looking, you can bet she ALREADY gets hit on alot.
Next, you have only been dating for 4 months...unless the two of you have made exceptional long term plans, she is free to live with who she wants.
Do I think they gave her the room becuase she is a hot girl...of course. Like I said, if she is as hot as you say, she is going to get lots of male attention.
If you have to worry about her liking them over you, then this relationship will not last. It does not have to be her roommates she falls for...it could be any guy that is not as insecure as this.
My question is why is she not moving in with you instead of these three guys?
I think you are right to be concerned, but not becuase they are going to hit on her (that is a given...no matter what she looks like. If they are guys, they will make their moves) but becuase she chose to live with men, and not other women.
Maybe she likes the extra male attention. That makes your relationship with her questionalble long term as it does not have to be her roommates for it to threaten your relationship. Most women I know look to move in with women, not men for the reasons I mentioned above.
That is the part that makes me wonder.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Why is she moving in with 3 guys anyways? Especially guys that she doesn't know? That is a better question for you.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Well i agree with flower girl.
Just talk to her about your fears and let her know whaat your thinkng. In the end i bet you will trust her.
If your really worried try and let them know shes taken without putting a post-it-note on her forehead.
But talking to her is your best bet
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): 3 guys ... 1 chick dude do the maths showers naked ... u cant be around 24/7 i think u need 2 talk about getting a place wv her or somethinghow do u know .... she will not come home and 1 of these guys be jerking off in front of the tv and she finds him ... all these things will being throw ya mind i hope shes not the cheating type and i feel sorry 4 ya reallyand another thing how do u know she will not get turned on like mad when she eres 1 of them have sex theres 2 other guys still in that place wv her all that could do my advice go around unexcepted all the time or move into your own place i hope this helps
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reader, flower girl +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Who knows what will happen when she moves in with them, you know your girlfriend better than any of us do.
Talk to her about your concerns and see what she say's.
Take care.xx.
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