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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey everybody i really dont know whats going on between me and my girlfriend, she goes to college and visits me every week. shes 18 im only 16. were going to be 6 months tomorrow. she visited me yesterday so we can be together for our anniversary, and everything was going good, we were laying down in my bed and she started touching me down there and she grabbed it and sucked it but not the head just around and also my testicales for about 5 mins and then she said i love teasing you.. I told her if she can suck the head, and she got offended i guess, and she got mad and just left.. And i received a text she sent me that said "all you want me for is so i can suck your cock" and i was like wtf? So now im stuck and i dont know what to do. She always wants to argue everyday.. I can say like lets go to mcdonalds and she says NO!! burger king! And i say its the same.. and she gets mad so i say okk lets go to burger king. I dont know, shes always mad and last week i went to her dorm in college and it was 4am and some guy came in her dorm and said "hi" and he left when he saw me.. She tells me everything like EVERYTHING! and she says hes just a friend so i dont know, theres alot of stuff going on and if i mention anything she just gets mad I NEED HELP!!!!!please
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Hmm... either she just has self control problems and needs anger management or she's paranoid. How did her last boyfriend treat her? Because maybe she's convinced herself that you're going to be the same and that puts her in a mood. I know it's unfair but I've (sort of) been there - judging my boyfriend and expecting him to treat me badly like my exes (which he hasn't so far - in fact he resents them for what they did to me.) I shouldn't have been that way and now I've learned to trust him.
Give her the benefit of the doubt on the guy in her dorm until you have other evidence that he's more than a friend.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I think you should talk. Talk a lot. even if she gets mad, if you start arguing, you HAVE to talk. if not just i don't know what to say. if she says he's a friend, and hasn't lied to you, i think you should trust her. i mean, she said, "i love teasing you" was to tease you not to do anything else i guess. But clarify that situation, because it can mean she's trying to make YOU mad, and end up breaking with you. If you don't want to talk, then hear what the "wind" has to say about that guy.
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