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writes: I really like this girl...but she doesn't seem to like me back. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2005): Life is not fair, however you can either waste your time trying to make someone like you, or move on to someone that may have the same passion and feelings for you. Life is short so don't waste time.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (8 March 2005):
 In a case like this, there isn't much that you *can* do. There will always be people that you're romantically interested in, who don't return your affections. That's just life and it's no reflection on your personal attractiveness, so don't let it get you down.Having said that, even though she doesn't seem to like you now, it's possible that over time she'll start to see that you're a nice person and grow to like you more. So practice being a nice person and a friend to this girl. Don't pin your hopes on being her boyfriend, but just be friendly. Smile when you talk to her, ask her how things are going, be kind to her friends... that kind of thing. If you and she have a common interest, don't be afraid to speak up and ask her about things you both like.It may be that she'll come around to seeing you as boyfriend material some day, but even if she doesn't, since you like her already, you might have her as a friend and that's a good thing all on its own.
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