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writes:Lately arguments over the same things developed between me and my fiance. From day one she has been aggressively jealous (even violent). However,there`s been several things i have seen looking suspicious, or her behaviour has gone wierd after stumbling upon something she accidently uncovers or says. She goes through phases of calling me by different names. When asked about anything she blows up,begins accusing me of cheating,changes the subject and it ends up in a childish argument. Over the last 6 months it`s become regular. Nothing has ever been resolved. Her stories change. Never once have i ever had an answer off her. Everything so far has been accidently revealed by her. I have found nothing because i never looked. She says i hide things from her, yet insists that she should have privacy. Is it worth the trouble? If she loves me like she says,then why is this happening?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): For the sake of your self worth,end the relationship asap.I`am not saying shes cheating,but the likelyhood is that she has and still is. She wont answer questions because she is guilty,but you dont need me to tell you that. She doesnt care how you feel,and wants you for security. When you go to work can you tell me that you are so sure she`s alone in your house? she is trouble with a capital T.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): I`m the one to put up this question. Anon female,get a grip. If you want to dump someone,you dont need excuses.To others thanx.I will be ending this relationship tonight as i cant handle being in a relationship with someone i cant trust and who has taken every opportunity she can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): seems to me your making excuses to dump her,if she`s as bad as that surley she wasn`t like that when you got together,i noticed you are entirely blameless so how on earth did she become the way she is
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): hi,seems your girlfriend maybe insecure,you say she accuses you of hiding things from her,do you make her feel important,do you include her in anything you do,does she feel left out,these things make a girl feel as if they are being mistreated.do you think she`s cheating on you,has she shown signs such as making excuses not to see you,being late getting to you,not having regular sex,dont want you touching her,making excuses not to go bed when you do if the answer is yes to any of these,she`s cheating if no that means you need to see whats realy going on by talking to her and reassuring her
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reader, CynthiaRenae  +, writes (1 October 2007):
It sounds like she might be the one cheating... I hate to tell you that but sometimes the accuser is the guilty. I hope she's not cheating but it kinda sounds like it. If she's your age she should be way past the jealousy outrages that come from nowhere (that's usually at 19-26). You might calmly ask her what's going on in general. Talk to her and see if she'll talk about anything. Tell her you want to understand. And if she is cheating, it's not worth your trouble.
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