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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi my name is Tyrome I have been going with this girl shana for 8 months we were both friends before we started going out.Before we started going out we did everything together we joke we went out to eat at places everything except sex back wen we were friends she never looked at me as a boyfriend or nothin like that but i always had feelens for her I always liked her sometimes I would just plan what Ima say to her everyday so she would like me.we have been friends for 3 years but in this year of 2009 we really startin dating in jan the first few months we had so much fun but she had alot of secrets in her past she lost her virginity to a boy that had a girlfriend and he played her then she had sex with another boy and he played her Im like the 5th guy who had sex with her I never played her when she finally told me this she just started breakin down and cryin out tears I told her it was ok afta the first few months we started havin problems she lied to me about her X hittin her up and he wont stop hittin her up the last time we broke up she went to a cookout by his house and they had sex she said I shouldnt worry about it cuz we not togetha but the whole time we wasnt going out she was still havin sex with me I question her about it everyday since it happen it wasnt until a month later she told me what really happened she said she didnt mean to do it it just happened she says she was tired of me breakin up with her so many times over dum shit should I go back out with her?? should I be upset?? I really love her but i need advice She not the type to cheat or nothin i dont think ever since then she been tryin to hang with me everyday.But everytime im around her i juss think about her doin that with her X I get a attitude with her till the point were I wanna stop talkin to her what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): She has been hurt a lot in her past and it seems like its really hard for her to trust people considering all she has been through. She might not have wanted to open up to you right away and kept a lot inside cause she was scared you would do the same to her as all her other past boyfriends. But this also hurts you, because you aren't sure you can trust her. The two of you should just try to sit down and talk everything through. Really open up to each other and let everything out. Try to connect like the two of you used to. Try to find that same love you both shared when you first got together. If things don't work, if you find you cant fully trust her and connect with her, then maybe you two should just try to be friends like you were before. She has to be willing to understand how you feel and the two of you have to open up that communication and not hide anything from each other. Without that it will be too hard for both of you too continue on like this.
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