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writes:I'm not really looking for help, because I don't think there's anything I could possibly do to make myself feel better. I just need a place to share my feelings. But if you want to offer some feedback, please do.About a month ago, I split up with my girlfriend. We were in a long distance relationship and it was hard, so we split up. Although we agreed if circumstances were ever better we might get back together. Which I think was at first what made it so hard to move on. Because with her, I found out the true meaning of love, I loved her so much. And I know she loved me as well.So I was just starting to move on, four weeks (now) after we split, and I was starting to get everything back to normal and start feeling good again, well near enough anyway. Then about 20 minutes ago, after not really speaking since we split up, she comes online and tells me she's got a new boyfriend and she's been seeing him for 2 weeks. A friend that's she's known for a while. I acted cool, and said I'm really happy for them both, and all that crap.In reality, I haven't stopped crying since.And I don't know, when we were splitting up and agreeing that if circumstances were ever better we might get back together, she was pretty adamant for it to be okay to see other people. So maybe she had started seeing him, or had him in mind before we split.She cheated on me a couple of days after we first started seeing each other. Although that seems completely out of character, so I forgave her for that. But now I don't know. I just feel sick.
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 "...agreeing (??) that if circumstances were ever better we might get back together", "She cheated on me a couple of days after we first started seeing each other",NEVER, EVER trust a woman so easily my friend. I see from your age that you are young and you just learned your first love lesson. Next time be more careful on who you invest you feelings and heart. We have all cried for a woman and that's normal, don't make it a habit though, above all be a man. Cheers!
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