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writes: Hey everyone,This is the first time I've ever done this im usually the one giving advice but this time I think I should admit I need help....Its kind of stupid and I'm sure with time I could find it in myself to come to terms and face the results and talk to my girlfriend but I'm hoping theres an alternative that you could give me....Anyway into things, Me and my girlfriend have been going out 6months next saturday, and thats not the problem believe me, I really love this girl and shes told me she loves me, her friends have told me, she can openly express this through a txt, a leta, and an email, and i can feel her love when I'm with her, but I feel that she cant openly say I love you to me as much I would like, I know it seems pathetic but how can I get her to know I need to hear it more without actually telling her?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Well maybe try telling her more often and she may reply with the same. Why are you so concerned that she doesnt love you ? Are you afraid that she is commited ? Do you not feel that she loves you ? If shes says that she does and you feel that she does, then there isnt a need to keep getting affirmation of this. She might just think that you know and doesnt want to make you feel trapped by constantly going on about it. Try and be more affectionate and tell her how special she is and how much you care for her, and ask how she sees things panning out for you. It seems that you may be a little scared as you love her alot and feel she doesnt love you as much. Try not to be too pressuring or you will push her away, shes told you shes love you, she texts, you, writes letters, does she really have to tell you every second of the day ? How many times does she have to tell you she loves you for you to believe it ? If she tells you once a day isnt that enough ? Relax a little, im sure if shes already told you, she loves you thats enough ? Try not to worry about how many times that she tells you, just the fact that she does love you!
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reader, .:OnLy-DrEaMiNg:. +, writes (21 June 2006):
Hey there Maybe shes just not the kind of open person, not because she dosnt love you back or anything it just could be that saying it face to face for her is more difficult? Try saying 'I Love You' to her face to face often and she'll say it back to you. This could encourage her to say it more often and openly to you.Hope this helps :)
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