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*tooinlove
writes:My boyfriend used to see a girl he worked with for about 2 years. he said they broke up and he started seeing me. i found about a year ago that she calls him still everyday. he denied it until i told him i could see the phone records. then he says she is calling about legitimate work stuff. they have left work several times about 5 mins apart and then he doesnt answer his phone for about an hour. he will tell me he is going home. when he finally does answer his phone he has some lame story about where he was and his phone was on silent. does a woman call a man everyday and there not be something going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): thank you anonymous. I feel just exactly as you have described. I'm glad there is some one else out there that can relate to me and what i am feeling and going through.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 December 2010):
 Unless they're friends, then yes. But seeing as it's his ex, plus he's lied about having contact with her. Then he's giving you crap excuses, and not answering his phone. Is he still seeing her? You tell me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): i wish i could tell you something easy. you need to either trust him or let him go! i did the same thing with my bf because he was always talking to girls and i even created the account so i could see his phone records!! thats absurd i felt like trash cuz i wasnt having enough respect for myself let alone for him. so i know its not right, i dont think a girl just calls all the time just for work i mean once probably but not all the time. but you know what you need to do?? dont pay too much attention to him, he is not your husband and make more friends, dont let him be the center of your world, TRUST me the more you find the crazier youll get. youll do things you never thought youd do. been there done that. and the more you do the harder it is to stop!! its like an addiction and thats not healthy, not good for you or him. so let him do his thing dont check up on him and the truth will come out. if his cheating on you youll find out but because the truth will come to you. nothing stays hid in this world. so if he is or not dont let it take the best of you!! youll waste more time trying to figure out things. key point. youre not married and there are looots of guys out there. but you need to trust him and like i said if hes lying youll find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): No, but what is going on is not always so clear.
I'd certainly investigate thoroughly.
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