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writes:dear cupid, im in need of advice or some help here. i was talking to this girl whom iv begun to develop feelings for. here is a little background. she was 3 months out of a bad relationship with someone shed been seeing for about 3 years. and i was 2 months out of a 4 year relationship when she and i began to hang out 4-5 times a week. but one night while hanging out we began talking with one another and after a few of our other friends left she and i began fooling around in mybed room were we both gave each other some oral sex. long story short i began to fall for this girl. and the next time she and i hung out. i got absolutly wasted, i drank far to much that night and began telling her thing i probably should not have. thing like " i do think i like you" and "when will you let me take you out on a date". now these things may hav been fine in any other situation but keep in mind i rushed things in my drunkin state, because she was only a few months out of a relationship whith some one. a few days later i called her to hang out and she blew me off. a few weeks later she called me to hang out and after saying that i would she blew me off again. so i made the choice of not contacing her for a week completly. question: should i call this girl and see if she would like to hang out or is it still to soon. and if i do call and hang out with her what should i say to her. i really like this girl but its obvious that it is to soon for a relationship for both of us. i like this girl alot and would like to get to kno her better... some one help me please
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): i came out a real bad relationship 4months ago and it is very difficult to get close to anyone else. Her trust has probably gone for guys and maybe she doesnt want to get hurt again. Sometimes it is easier saying your feelings when drunk but because you were drunk maybe she thinks you dont mean it because face it you did have oral sex quite soon. If you really like this girl you shouldnt give up, make sure shes ok and reassure her that you meant what you said and if she needs time to go out with her you will give her space, she needs to know you really care whilst sober.
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reader, jaecee  +, writes (16 July 2009):
hun, you need to call her and appologise for your drunken antics, she may be afraid to get to close to you because shes come out of a bad relationship, she may not be ready to trust again and rushing her has prob scared her off, take things slow a few phone calls maybe a night out with a bunch of mates but remember dont get to drunk!
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