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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have a new girlfriend whom i met online and she lives 100 miles away from me.Firstly, I was supposed to see her on saturday but something came up so she came to see me on friday, which I thought was sweet, however she came with her friend (her friend has a boyfriend in my city aswell) and when i was waiting with her at the bus stop and her friend was there to she claimed she was sick and didnt want to cuddle with me, but did make out with me before she boarded the bus.only a few of her friends know she came to see me, no one knows she has a boyfriend, maybe not even those friends who know she came to see me (other than the one who saw me kissing her).She says she doesnt want me to go up because she lives in a rural place with nothing to do (which is true) and would rather come down to the city to see me. To get a day out of her is like pulling teeth and sometimes I think im some side deal to her, when I ask her about it she is like "you NEED to trust me if this is going to work!" (The distance).When I ask her what plans does she have she says "I dont know" and I know factually speaking, she doesnt have a job and does nothing more or less all day.I believe 100 miles isnt far and seeing each other once a week isnt to much to ask, I told her this aswell!. What do I do to get through to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): hey im christina. my advice would be to talk to her about it but go further into the conversation.so she knows your serious about this. Im sure she will understand that in a relationship, communication is one of the best ways to get your point across
good luck =]
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