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Sex hurts my girlfriend because she says I'm too big!

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Question - (23 June 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. We're both really happy with each other. I'm 23 and she's 19.

Everything is great between us, except that it always hurts her when we have sex. She's had sexual partners before and has enjoyed vaginal sex with them, but she says I'm too big and that it hurts her, although she's as keen as I am to keep trying to see if it will get better. She said it hurt with one person before, also because he was quite big.

But I don't want to keep hurting her! Although I do want it to get better and for her to be able to enjoy having sex with me. She tends to be find it quite tricky to orgasm, although I have managed it a few times through oral sex and stimulating her clitorus.

Once or twice it hasn't hurt, and it felt brilliant for us both, although she didn't have an orgasm.

Can anyone please offer me any advice??

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