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writes: "My gf is selfish and lacks self-control. What should I do about her?"My girlfriend of 9 months is a strange one, she acts like shes single sometimes, getting over exited and showing me up when were out with our mates (which is all she talks about doing which frankly does my head in). before we got together she was very close (flirting/kissing) with my best mate who i lived with at the time (she was also going out with someone else), and she always talks about going round his house cause thats where our mates go most of the time, she still gets on with him really well for some reson i feel very threatened because she treats him better than me sometimes. i have made it clear i dont want her going round there without me because the last time she went round that house without her boyfriend she ended up cheating on him with me!. she has very little self control and is extremely selfish sometimes, im sick of having a go at her for all these things and its like talking to a brick wall, she just apologises and tells me she loves me but its not enough - i either want reason for her actions or a change in them full stop!I have thought about ending the pain a good few times but i am so in love with her she really could be the one, when we are happy its great, but the way she acts is just unbelieveable sometimes. There is so much more to it but im gonna keep it as short as possible.What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): She can not be the one unless you have always wanted to be in love with someone who can cheat on you with other men and expose you to a life changing or life ending STD, cause you further mental anxiety and lose your self esteem, and who can ignore your reasonable wishes of having a faithful, reliable and an emotionally available GF.
Having a cheap woman who is physically available is not love.
Seek some counselling as to why you would honestly make such a choice in a life partner.
Get smart, get strong.
Best Wishes.
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