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writes: I'm with a man that I have been with for almost a year and although I still find him sexy and attractive and the sex is good, I'm bisexual and he doesn't know it. Lately I've been finding myself craving women and it's driving me insane. Should I tell him or just try to forget about it? What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): The risk is will he accept it. I dated a women once that had a girl friend. I just knew were weren't getting married. A third person does not work in most cases. So she had aher girlfriend and we had our relationship. The longer it went on the more we became very good friends but the less we became focused on the future. She has moved on and so have i. But, we are still friends and talk often and occasionally get together and not always for sex just to hang out. The relationship ended but not the friendship. So its up to you. What do you want? and What does he want? Be sure before you make a choice.
A reader, lust, writes (30 January 2005): i would try it with a women first you might not like it once you have been there and could risk your relationship for nothing. i also crave after women but would not dare tell my partner unless i knew it was what i really wanted.
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A reader, Christina, writes (30 January 2005): Well my opinion is, whether your partner is male or female isn't the issue but fidelity to 'one' mate is. I may be a bit prudish but to establish a honest and fulfilling relationship with another means only having ONE OTHER. If you just want to have hot sex go for it!!!!! Whatever turns you on.Christina
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (27 January 2005):
 Hi there,When I read your question, the first phrase through my head was "Fortune favours the bold"!Go on and tell your boyfriend; in fact, tell him just as you've done here, that you have fantasies about sex with women and it's driving you nuts because the idea makes you so hot. I think there's a really good chance that your boyfriend will want you to act on this particular obsession, since (as you're probably already aware) the girl-on-girl fantasy is a very popular one with men as well.You might want to make "sharing" you worth his while, by telling him afterward, and in graphic terms what happened between you and your girl, or even by finding a wholesome lass who'd be interested in a three-way with the both of you. But the details are for you to decide.My suggestion is go ahead and tell him. You have an excellent chance to fulfill one major male fantasy by doing exactly what you want to do anyway. So I guess everybody wins!Cheers!
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