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writes:My mate is overweight, spotty and has bad teeth, the only attractive physical feature she has is that she has big boobs. She cheats on every single guy she meets (literally) and she has sex with any guy that looks at her. Thing is, i'm sick of guys picking her over me and it's killing my confidence completely. like one night i was talking to a guy that constantly complimented me, said i was the best thing ever and that he wanted me to be his first, then i said to my mate "look he's not good with girls but i don't wanna be with him, can you just say he's a nice guy and help me out a bit, don't flirt wi him or anything cause of your boyfriend" she said okay. LITERALLY 5 minutes later i got a text from the guy "omfg thank you so much! she's the most amazing person ever! i got a naked picture and she has the best body ever! thank god i didn't go wi u, thanks for hookin me up" WTF SHE HAS A BF! then i was on msn and he had the CHEEK! to say "she's so amazing, maybe we could have a 3sum and YOU COULD LEARN SOMETHING FROM HER!" OMG! he's a bloody virgin and he's saying i could learn stuff?it's like for every guy i talk to she has 20 flirting with her. :( it's making me a bad friend because today she said "omg i'm so worried, i loved john but i slept with gavin what should i do" and i just said "tbh, heard this from you too many times to care, you cheated, fix it yourself and stop sh*gging everything that moves" she just laughed and went on to say "well gavin has such a nice car" i just don't know how i can be her mate, it's like everything she says kills my confidence because i know hardly any guys and she has a new boyfriend PLUS like 100 guys flirting with her every day! :( I wanna be her mate but i dunno how i can keep calm whenever she brags about the hundreds of guys wanting her, y'know? How can i stop being so jealous?
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reader, mezzo_soprano_reader  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 You are definitely not the one being a bad friend. TRUST ME ON THAT. She should be THANKFUL she has someone like you with a conscience, taste, and actual good-to-earnest MORALS for a friend! I don't know how you met this person, but she is definitely not worth the time to be friends with, especially if she's not considerate of your feelings and your self-confidence. DROP THE -insert witty euphemism for what she is here- and move on to work on some good flirting skills with GOOD GUYS, not scum.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 December 2009):
Do you know WHY all the guys want her?
It's because word has got round that she's really easy to get sex from.
They want sex and she's giving it out.
They don't LIKE her, they don't RESPECT her, and deep down you know that she doesn't have any respect for herself or she wouldn't let guys use her like a cheap whore.
It's basically like asking why men won't come to your nice restaurant when she is outside giving away free greasy burgers. They have no taste but know it's free. That's why they send you sad little messages like you got. She's attracting the scummyest lowest guys who are happy to use her.
If I were you then I'd find a new friend. You don't want guys thinking you are anything like her.
Good Luck!! xx
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