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writes: I have a renewed relationship with my ex-boyfriend who is now married. We are in a long distance relationship, and he is constantly jealous of my past. I have vowed to be true and indeed have been so, and have changed my life over to make sure that there will be no opportunities for him to doubt my love for him. However, the slightest innocent words are usually linked by my lover to my past, and he could be so jealous. I don't know what to do to make him feel secure that he has me, and that the future of togetherness we are looking at, is all that i work for. Any help as to how i should deal with this situations?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): Im sorry, but why are you renewing a relationship with your ex if he is still married?? Who cares what he is jealous about? He has a wife!! I am sorry, but have more respect for yourself and his wife and get out of this. You will only get hurt. Best wishes to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): Let me tell you something.
You are not going to be truly happy nor will you know true peace from being sexually and emotionally intimate with a married man.
You will only come to know heartache, lowered self esteem, lowered sense of worth and question your value as a woman-you will come to believe that no one can love you so you will hang on to the married, selfish, ugly, pathetic man.
He is far from honorable and I wouldn't lower uourself to his level by continuing anything with this man.
He is married. End of it.
Anything he says to you about his boo-F*cking-hoo problems are just excuses and stories to have you suckered into feeling for him-man does he know how to play you.
He is using your past to be abusive to you and give a false hope of if only you are willing to be more for him; he will choose you over his wife.
Listen, he choose his wife because she probably has low self esteem and therefore he can be abusive to her; verbally as he is doing with you.
Have no further contact with him.
Seek some individual counselling to get wiser, emotionally stronger and mentally aware so that you can avoid such losers in your bright future.
Have A Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in being a smart, strong, beautiful woman who has promised herself she deserves some real happiness.
*hugs*
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