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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright so i got a few questions about relationships. Have you ever dumped someone for being clingy and came back?How would you show them that you have changed i understand you TRULY but im taking steps to change?I have gone Complete no contact meaning no facebook. I also ended it on a good note saying i was sorry for what happened and that i changed and i wished her for the best and i said goodbye. I said this so she would know that im gone and that im letting go its not me playing games i tell her everything my feelings and all. I know i came on strong to her and pushed her a little too much. I didnt realize i was doing all this stuff until later when i had a clear head, and then she was already dating someone. I have been complete no contact for a whole month and it has been a month in a half since the letter. What should i do? I realize i want her to live out the relationship with this guy i want her to be happy. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): You are best moving on and finding someone to put your good intentions into practice. Your clingyness is a behavior that reflects inner insecurities. if you say you have changed them you should walk the walk with someone else you like.
The thing is most guys behave like you sooner or later. whos to say her new boyfriend is worse than you were and maybe does something else that she hates.
Girls always seem to come running back sooner or later especially if they see you are happier than them.
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