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writes:(OP's own title)this guy and i are close. i really like him, ALOT. we work together, but lately after crazy false rumors were going on around us(like that i was pregnant. i am still a virgin!) we werent really talking at work for a couple weeks just so we could cool off i guess. but anyways i cant really talk to him in private at work, you know? because of the people around. he is a cook im a waitress. last night i was bringing 2 other cooks coffees and he looks at me and goes, "nothing for me?? But you get them stuff.. ok!" So im like what can i get for you? and he's like, "i want you" ..and im like.. uh.. come on... here?? wtf?? (i didnt say that. i just smirked/smiled) and hes like, water. so i just got him a water and that was that.i really want to be more close to this guy. i have no idea how i was supposed to react in a situation like that. If he says that again in the future, What should i do/say?? anything that i can do now? anything to know? like, today he was staring at me while i was on the phone with my mom to pick me up he gave me this look and air kissed me.. (we havent made out/kissed at all in like.. 2 months.) we used to be so much closer before all of this started.. now, at work, it seems like we are just flirting buddies. it kills me though, because i really could see myself with him. and i want him too... HELP PLEASE? :)
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Sounds like a lot of outside pressure was put on both of you. You both backed off to ease that off before people lost jobs. Whenever work and love clash, troubles ensue.
What he is doing now is reopening communication. He is keeping it at a friendly flirting level because that is safe.
If you want the relationship to get more serious, you are going to have to take things up away from work. Your boss will appreciate it and your coworkers will stop trying to sabotage you. Eventually you may have to find separate jobs to avoid the problems an advanced relationship in the same workplace can cause. You are not so close now to need that.
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