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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I was seeing a girl a few months ago, and it didn't work out. It's been over four months now since we broke up, and over three months since the last time I spoke to her. We're never going to get back together or anything, in fact it's unlikely I will ever even see her again. Problem is, I can't stop thinking about her. There doesn't seem to be any good reason for keeping her in my head; all it accomplishes is tormenting myself, but I don't know how to make myself stop. I thought maybe meeting someone new would help, but it didn't (didn't work out with her, either, but the second one isn't filling my head like the first one is). How can I get her out of there?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (15 February 2009):
maybe go and see a professional for some help? otherwise i would just keep busy, or take up a ne hobby, then you will meet lots of new people! xx
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