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writes:Recently my boyfriend has been talking to his ex over the phone. He admitted to me that they had phone sex and he had been phoning her while at work. He says that he has no feelings for her and it was just a mistake, do i forgive and forget or start from scratch with someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Oh, and by the way. I meant to add :]... Phone sex generally involves (at least starting by) telling each other what you'd like to do with each other.
Whether he had feelings or not, there's obviously some sexual ties here! To be honest, if I were you, I'd be devestated. So I'm so sorry if you're feeling dead hurt right now. But if you can forgive him, you're a better girl than I am. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Jeez, simply, no. This is not pardonable. If he loved you and cared for your feelings, would he do this? No.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 Can you forgive and forget?
People do stupid things, sometimes they learn from their mistakes, sometimes they don't. One problem is that cheaters if you remain with them will do again because the temptation is still there and now they know they can get away with it.
If he admitted it of his own accord, not because you found out, and he seems genuine, I would give him another chance. Accept it happened and put it in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): that sounds kinda shady.... IF this keeps happening then forget him but if that was really a one time thing then maybe you should forgive and forget. Do what you feel is right and what your heart tells you. I hope I helped in some way . I hope everythign works out .
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