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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend but lately I have been doubting our relationship. He came to visit me in Taiwan,where I was working,along with my roomate's bf who proposed to her. Since then, I have been picking fights with my bf and finding flaws with him, such as he's not good looking enough, he's kinda dull, etc. I got the feeling that my roommate thought he was dull too, even though she didn't directly say that to me. I know that I love him, but I don't understand why I feel this way, bc I was perfectly happy with him before he came to visit me. Now I feel like, even though he's the sweetest guy, it isn't enough. I justreally want to go back to being in love with him again.Please help !!
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reader, Confusing Medows +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Oh man... I kno what you mean. It's like he's the best and all of a sudden it's all going down the drain. Do you guys see each other often? Maybe what's going on is that you're changing and he's still the same guy you fell in love with. What I suggest is that you talk to him and let him know what's going on. Maybe in the end you're really not meant to be... you know? I know it's hard... trust me. I'm in a real pickle with my boyfriend right now and I told him that if it ever gets to the point where we're spending more time working on our relationship like to have one... instead of actually having one than we should really consider breaking up before things get bad with all fighting and we end hating each other. So I think you should take that into consideration. Try working it out but if it doesn't work then it doesnt work. Don't stay because you don't want to hurt him or because you owe it to him or because it's been too long to just throw it all away because in the long run it'll just get worst because you'll fall more apart. I hope this helps at least a little... Good Luck
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