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writes:I wrote a question asking for advice about me refusing to have sex with my boyfriend because it's always about him and causes too many problems. That's still ongoing but now I've noticed something else: now we don't have sex, we have no other touching or intimacy either and it's mostly because I don't want to. I knew our love life was a bit dysfunctional but does this mean that was all that was holding us together? I'm feeling better not having sex so don't want to start again. Is it time to walk?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer, I'm 20 and he's 29. We've been together for 2 years. What do you think?
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 I am afraid it may be time. How do you relate otherwise? Do you talk, have fun, laugh together, have similar interests? These other things can be just as important as sex. If you dont relate well outside the bedroom and you already have stated you dont relate well inside the bedroom, what is left? How long have you 2 been together and how old are you? It is hard to tell from this wheather you werent ready for sex and are happier without it right now, or if it really is a problem with him specifically.
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