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anonymous
writes:I'm in a relationship of 1 year now I'm 25 and he's 28 we love having sex we have a problem with our sex life he likes when I give him oral sex but when I try to get him to give me oral sex he won't do it and its just not fair and I have stopped giving him oral sex and he just tells me he will get another female to give him oral sex if I won't do it and I say the same thing back to him I tell him I will get oral sex from another male and he gets upset. Why is he so selfish? Our relationship seems like its only based on good sex I love him but I don't think he loves me I think he's just sexually attracted should I dump this selfish SOB???
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reader, twinlab99 +, writes (24 April 2010):
 Yeah tha'ts pretty effed up.... I love oral sex as much as the next guy...but you gotta give to get!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 April 2010):
 He tells you that he'll get another female to do what he wants. Gross. This guy sounds like a real dog. He's either bluffing so that he gets what he wants from you, OR he sees you as a booty call and nothing more.
Tell him he better save up his money, because the girls he cal get to suck him off cost money. Then dump his ass for someone who likes you for who you are and loves to give you pleasure!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Yes, dump him. Your relationship should be equal and he is not treating you with respect. He is just looking out for himself.
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Yes, you should dump him. Not so much because of the oral sex issue (even though, you are right, he is being disgustingly selfish), but because you said the relationship is based only on sex. Your other needs are being ignored, because you tied to this guy, who doesn't give you the kind of emotional connection you want. Look elsewhere!
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