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writes: Hi everyone, my relationship's on the rocks. Im engaged and was very happy, but now I'm depressed and stressed in my job and take it out on my fiance with my mood swings. This resulted in when the bells going off this New Year, and me not even looking at him. I'm punishing myself for hurting him at such a time and last night we split up. We talked and made back up again but we're both drained and exhausted. He wants us to not argue for a month and doesn't believe I love him anymore. I do and i want this to work....I'm going to find a new job but does anyone have any advice as how not to argue and for us to come out of this strong and get our energy back to save this relationship? He's everything to me Thanks!!
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reader, perky  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 hi it seems everyone seems to have this trobule in ther relstionships i hav had that to just in fact well the best thing to do is to try and talk first tell him wat u would liek him to do wen u cum bak from work stressed maybe it could be goin out sumwere together or just a hug of him or sumthin gto calm u down just anything i have the same prob my tempter is bad and i lost the love of my life for it but try talkin about it and if it stil happens then i sujest u take a break form each other so u can sit down and have sum time to urself to think wat u want and wat u could do to make it work but mainly every relationship has its arguments they have there ups and downs it happens just sit down and talk bout wat u would liek him to do wen u cum bak and let him say his side and work sumthin out or like i say go on a break form each other have sum time apart go c ur friends and family and things like that
ope i have helped u out in a way and hope this new year brings u the best out of it let me knwo how u get on xx
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