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writes:Can you win back an ex-boyfriend that broke up with you after a year? I really want to go to his house and explain that I'm still in love with him and that his reasons (problems with distance; my parents dislike for him) are no longer applicable?But this is this really creepy?I don't know what to do with myself. The situation is made worse because I know the break-up was nothing either of us did; it was only because of unfortunate cirumstance. However; when he broke up with me I was so gutted that I deleted him from all places of contact and maintained no contact because I thought I would get over him. But I'm still in love with him! What can I do? Is going to his house too creepy?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (6 April 2013):
Call him and don't ambush him with "let's get back together!"
Ask how he's doing and tell him that you moved closer and your parents are gone (or whatever happened to them). BE CASUAL. Chat, don't ask to get back! You don't ask those kinds of things right away, you have to ask them after its apparent that the two of you have still got it.
Ask if he'd like to go have lunch or coffee and take it from there as if you were starting over. The fact that you have history will help speed things up but it's important to start a little slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2013): FOLLOWUP:
Sorry. My mistake. By "After" a year, I mean it's been a year since we have been broken up.
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