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writes: hi, my question is dat ive gt a girlfriend and i really do luv her but i need to no if she luvs me. she says she does but how can i tell. i am very close to her and we kiss and cuddle every time we r wiv each other, but my parents are very strict and i am hardly wiv her only on a friday nite and after skool for about 5 or 10 mins. wat cud i do to be with her more because i really love her. and im afraid dat if im not with her enough she will start wantin some1 else who she sees every day. but i think i no she wont cus she says she says she loves me and i believe her but dont no if she really means it. how can i tell. thanx for taking the time to listen to my problem i appreciate it. rocket age 13p.s please help me. thanx Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Sharon, writes (19 January 2005): You poor thing,I don't want to tell you that you are young and that you will think you'r in love with a dozen girls before you find the right one. What I will tell you is that you need to enjoy whatever time you have with her and remember every second of it, because my sweat, no matter how much you want it, it probably won't last. The memories however will. So cherrish them. Just have fun and enjoy being young. You'll be fine.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (19 January 2005):
 Hi Rocket,The first thing to do is, don't worry too much. When the feeling of loving someone is brand new, you should give yourself a chance to enjoy it and not try to analyse it so much that you start to doubt yourself.If your girl says she loves you, then you've got it pretty much "straight from the horse's mouth", haven't you? She's the only one whose declaration of love counts and she wouldn't gain anything by pretending about it, so relax a little and practicing trusting her. Take her at her word.It must seem difficult that you're not able to be with your girl as much as you'd like, but I'm sure your folks have their reasons, (which are most probably to do with your general safety after school and at night). So try to think of ways that you can show your girlfriend that you're thinking of her, even when you're not physically there.For example, if you go to the same school, try writing her a note saying how much you care about her, and leave it somewhere safe, like a locker, where she can find it. Girls absolutely treasure things like that. If you have a mobile phone, send her a text once a day to let her know that you wish you could see her more and that you're looking forward to the next time you two meet.Will your folks let you ring her up? If you can, you don't have to have a lot to say, just "Hi, what did you do today?"If you can't text or ring, even just emailing her or chatting online will ensure that you're in her thoughts when you can't be there in person. Again, you don't have to be the best writer in the world, just say what you want to. The fact that you kept in touch is what counts.All these suggestions are cheap and easy, but I can promise you that, if you show your feelings in such small ways, you'll make a major impression on her.I hope this helps.
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