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female
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51-59,
*ioletSparkle
writes:Hello, I would really like some suggestions: I am recently back to dating after a long spell, and I found this guy who I feel a sparkle for online, he lives in a distant city (where I am going to go in 1 month) so meeting is not an option. He wrote some things that could have been a red flag, and I was wondering what questions could I ask/how could I proceed in order to unmask him in case he is a player, but not too harsh to avoid making him run away in case he is a good guy. He seemed punctual in writing, but he doesn't ask many questions, tells me details about his day, Red flags: after only a few messages he shared some really personal things (to be fair as an answer to my question, so I am not sure), and afterwards he did write a few times too many for my taste how much he wanted a relationship, and proceeded to write some romantic scenarios with me in it, and I felt very uncomfortable because I don't get to know him that way. I told him about my feeling, and he seemed hurt, even suggested that we be just friends, and I was expecting him to disappear, but he is writing again. What can I do to understand his goals? He also just repeated that he dreams of a relationship, nothing about me...
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reader, boo22  +, writes (20 June 2015):
 Run for the hills.... He sounds like a weirdo! x
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