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36-40,
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writes:I get so excited to meet a girl. to know the girl. to "get" with the girl. everything is great. but than when the day actually comes where we do more than kiss. its like im done with her.. i dont know why. i suddenly get unattracted and lose the feeling. can anyone help me out here. Reply to this Question
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (31 January 2009):
 To me, it sounds like you're more into "the thrill of the chase" ...more so than actually developing a relationship. Honestly, this could go both ways here. You're a young guy and it's not unreasonable to be seeing lots of different women... IMO, it's not bad. If anything, the more women you date, the more you know what your really after... but, if you are more or less up front with these women (before the final conquest) that you're not interested in developing anything long-term, then maybe that's OK too... but be prepared... there are more men than women interest in simply dating around (again, IMO). You could be crushing a lot of hearts... and I'm a big believer in Karma -- what comes around, goes around and you might get a dose of your own medicine in the future.
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