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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together since I was in high school. His parents and him suddenly decided to move to Florida two years into or relationship. We've been apart ever since. We try the long distance thing, but we are very on-again off-again. we love each other so much, he is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with. but neither of us can handle the stress of being away from each other for months at a time. i feel like an army wife only my boyfriends enjoying himself on the beach. i can't imagine losing him, but i can't stand being alone any longer. we both feel now as if we're losing each other and we're dire for a simple answer. moving to one another is not an option right now (bills, bills, bills). is it time to call it quits or hang in there a little longer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): call it quits for sure. my girlfriend i went out with in high school for two years also moved away but to colorado and we did stay together even with the distance. and after a year and a half of being away she came back! but she had made new friends and so did i and we both changed as people. i guess that was hard to tell over the phone but when we reunited the relationship went sour fast. i know you think you are deeply in love but i wouldnt waste my precious youth with a long distance relationship. its just not worth it.
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