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writes: I do not live so close to my b/f so when we heard a storm would be coming the next day, we decided to just do things close to my area and then can drop me home.His friend called like 3 times..the second time was about where he was and if he was out..and as he was talking my b/f got out of the car to check the menu of a place we might eat at--at first i thought--are they saying stuff he doesnt want me to hear?Then when he got back in the car, he said well i won't be there anytime soon(meaning tonight) but he said to him on the phone before that that he cant come to the other area with me b/c there is a storm coming--he isnt going to drive through it tomorrow to drop me home which is fine...his friend calls again--the third time-- and it was like 1am..and my b/f said well we are still at so and so..i was getting the feeling my b.f was going to drop me home after we were done and then go to some bar to meet him.The thing is--at the last bar my b/f looked like he was really tired, falling asleep so we left--i got in at 2:50 or and it takes him like 25 minutes to get home--do you think he went to a bar afterwards and just won't tell me? I think it was a little annoying the friend calling about 3 times and i felt like he was telling my b/f after you drop her home or to even drop her home and come hang out...If he was so tired at a certain time and had to drive--do you think he drove and tried to find parking at another bar and also look for parking? Reply to this Question
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 I dont get what your mad about?
Ok, he might of gone out with his mate afterwards, but from what you have said he did'nt say he was'nt. You only assumed he was'nt.
I can understand your frustration that he did'nt want to spend the rest of the evening with you. But if he did go out what is the damage?
You have'nt actually asked him to stay round or ask him in so he could make his excuses. I think you are reading into nothing, unless you think there was another reason behind all of this.
He might of just wanted to see his mate for a couple of beers or something; innocent enough I think.
If i am missing something let me know...
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