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writes: My gf doesn't want to talk about sex and if I do talk about sex with her she will break up with me.What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): It depends on her stance towards sex before marriage and religion. She might come from a religious background which includes not having sex before marriage, in which case you'll either have to respect that or not, or she may just not want to be a g/f who had sex and then got dumped, which happens alot nowadays. To the other person it may seem odd or impossible, but all you can do is go with it if you want to respect her. If you don't feel you can wait and don't want to pressure yourself to not have sex, the same, then you'll have to decide how strong you can be, and if you can remain faithful toward her if you really love her enough. If you love her otherwise, you'll have to obey her if you want her to stay with you.. With faith, you can move mountains. Good luck.
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