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writes:Help!!! I am in my mid fifties and met up with the boyfriend who gave my first snog about 13 years of age, I met up with him 7 years ago and since then he has kept in touch but told me of the ladies he is dating and then got back with his ex wife. To cut a long story short, this didnt work out, he works in Germany and I met up with him about 2 weeks ago, he seems friendly but never looked me in the eye??? I now realise that in those 7 years I have never stopped thinking about him but did not have the chance to tell him. Having only met up twice in 7 years, what do I do. I don't know whether he sees me as just an old friend to keep in touch with. Is life too short to email and say I would like to see him more, or the fact he didn't make any eye contact with me mean he doesn't see me as anything More???
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 May 2011):
 Your very welcome. I hope that he gets back to you soon and if he doesnt well then just remember it is his loss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Aunt Honesty, you have been the shoulder I needed, took the plunge and asked if he would like to meet up again and haven't heard anything back for 2 days, so guess I was right and at least I know. xx
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 May 2011):
The thing about the no eye contact well that doesnt mean that he doesnt like you, it could just be possible that he is vunerable and shy and doesnt want to look you straight in the eye. Dont take it as him not liking you. Go for it and dont look back. Either way you will soon know the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the advice, that is what I thought too, when we first met he chased me mercilessly and I was sscared of taking another step as he had told me he was getting back with his ex wife. Now the tables have turned, I like him and don't think he likes me, c'est la vie!!!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 May 2011):
Well if am honest with you it does sound like he just sees you as an old friend who he had a catch up with twice, there is nothing here to say he felt anything more. But if you feel something more for him well then yes life is to short so get on to writing him an email and ask him would he like to meet up more often, just keep it casual and see how it goes. Goodluck.
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