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writes: hi,My problem is im 15 and have never properly kissed a girl. I reaaly want to but i just cant find the courage to do it incase im rubbish or whatever.. What do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): From a girl's perspective you got me thinking to the "bad kisses" I've had in the past so perhaps this will help! (though all girls like different I guess!)
I hate it when a man goes for that first kiss and rams his tongue down your throat - much better to start with soft gentle kissing and then take it from there
A really sloppy wet kiss can be offputting, focus on the lips (sounds obvious but some men just seem to suction themselves to your whole mouth area yuck!).
Along with the kissing break away now and again and gently kiss her neck and cheek and then return to her lips - drives me insane! lol
Like David says, it does come naturally when it's the right moment and right girl - there's nothing better than lots of practice!
Phew, someone kiss me now!! lol.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 September 2006):
Kissing is one of those things that comes natural, just try to go with the flow. Kissing only becomes better with practice, it isn't really something you can learn on your own. Some people practice on their hand, but you only really learn from kissing.
When you are with a girl, treat it like a dance and follow her lead. Your confidence will soon grow.
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