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anonymous
writes:Im about to finish my senior year of high school, and ive never been in a relationship. not for lack of wanting one, but every time ive been with someone, it never lasts longer than a night. i have an above average intillectual capacity, im a star vball and bball player with an amazing body, and im really laid back, tolerant, and loving. Why don't i have a girl/boyfriend? Im i inadequate or undeserving in some fashion?
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 All good things come to those who wait!! It doesnt matter what you are or arent good at, whether your fat or thin or whether your smart or dumb the fact is theres someone out there for everyone and its half the fun going out and finding that person. Your past boyfriends clearly werent wright for you, but that does make you inadiquant or undeserving at all you just havent found that certain some one who you connect with..... But have faith coz he is out there MR WRIGHT is where youd least expect it.Enjoy the hunt and best of luck xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Instead of worrying about not having realtionships
You should go and look for relationships
Talk to different boys make new friends and get yourself out there
Meetin new people is always the best way to get into a relationship make sure you spend your friday nights out and that you look your best all the time
Get to know people and soon you will be rewarded
And also being forward isnt always a bad thing
I'm not saying to jump into bed with the next person who comes along but quik hugs/kisses can go a long way in boosting relationships good luck! x
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 love isnt something you seek, it always comes along when you least expected it!
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (16 September 2007):
 hey you. first of all you are not inadequate or undeserving in ANY way. you're still in high school - maybe there just isnt anyone suitable for you there. when you leave high school and go to college - if you are intending to - you will be amazed at the number of people you meet and how different they all are. high school feels like the start and end of the world when you are there but its really not. you will meet someone perfect for you and its worth holding out for that. you say your "relationships" only last one night - that is not good for your self esteem or your reputation for that matter. try to stay away from that kind of thing because it will only make you unhappy. theres an old old saying that comes to mind - nobody's gonna buy the cow when you're giving the milk away for free. it sounds like you have a lot to offer somebody so wait for someone who deserves it, and dont sell yourself short.
best of luck
Brooke
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reader, princess_sparkle +, writes (16 September 2007):
Is it perhaps maybe that your standards are too high?
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