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writes: My ex was very controlling and made me tell him everything and now I feel like I have to tell everything to my new bf, who doesn't care what I have done because he said what's done is done. The only thing I didn't tell him is really embarrassing, like when I was younger. You know how people say if you put something on ya the cat will lick it off? haha, Well I tried that when I was younger but it didn't actually do it and then with a dog's tail I tried something else. But keep in mind please that I was younger and not even in my right mind would I do this now. I know what to do and not to do now, so what I'm asking is tell me some embarrassing things about yourself to help me get over it because ever since I was with my ex I think about this constantly and I'm sorta depressed. So please or at least tell me how to stop thinking about this. Thanks. You all always give great advice! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANKS!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): I tried penetrating the couch. You laughing now? Good, if you are! =)That didn't feel like anything by the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): dont feel embarrassed about exploring as a kid! i used to do SO many weird things, from humping all stuffed animals/pillows, walking around in my moms bras hoping the guys in the offices across the street would see me, pretending to be a stripper on my bedpost, using many household items as masterbating tools, and yes the dog licking trick but he clearly wasnt interested. i think its completley normal. if you felt ok telling your boyfriend how silly you were, then thats fine, but make him fess up too, im sure he's done many things in his boyhood days because everyone does, thats where we learn about sexuality before we're taught by the books. its completley natural, normal, healthy, etc. and just be glad you're open sexually and were ok with yourself to have fun. just think of it as all the strange things you did for pleasure, and now you're old enough to know what really works! dont feel bad, trust me, if i felt "bad" for all the weird things i did as a child, i'd never have any fun in bed. and trust me, i do :) i hope this helped!
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