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writes: How can I get this guy out of my mind?Desperatly seeking advice on how i can stop thinking about the guy at work! This situation has been going on for about a year now, very early on I made my interest known and he has never actively discouraged me. However, have since found out that he's had a girlfriend, which he never told me about, but they have now split up, which he has also not told me about! He will often e-mail me, sending jokes but no messages, which most commonly are only addressed to me, to which i often reply, yes i know! Several times i've tried to turn things so that they are more professional i.e. only talking about work related issues, and he then goes out of his way to talk to me etc, leaving me very confused. At the end of the day i know if he was interested he would have done something by now, but i work in a small office and see him every day so can't avoid him, what can i do?
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reader, shania  +, writes (2 December 2005):
 I would of died of boredom by now.This man is playing mind games,why cant he be more up front with you? If a fella is interested in a girl then you go through the flirting and a bit of chasing and then the fella would ask the girl out but your fella is making a meal out of it! You have made it clear that you are interested in him yet he still plays these stupid games.If i was you,i would get to the point,say to him,would he like to go out for a drink etc,if he says yes then great,take it from there,if he says no then you will definately know where you stand because at the moment you dont.
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reader, J. +, writes (1 December 2005):
Ya sounds like he's playing little crush games. If you are truly in love with your man, what I'd want my girlfriend to do it reply to one of his emails saying something nice about what your man has done for you, adding at the end, "He's the best". But to not make it seem like you're throwing it in his face, (which I'd Love =P), something like "anyway that joke/email etc. was hilarious" to finish off the reply should do the trick. He may send you more emails, but after a couple comments of how great you man is, he'll get the point. Emails may continue after that as friendly, but any man would take the clue about the flirting.J.
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