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writes: Hi,I have tried masturbating but find it difficult to keep a solid erection. I am specifically masturbating to get over premature ejaculation. I am trying stop-start but everytime I stop I become flaccid which is nothign like it is in the bedroom where I'm hard at pretty much the thought of kissing my wife let alone touching her/having her naked/mid coitus.My wife's fulfilled sexually but I SO am not. Please help how I can masturbate better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help
I've seen a urologist and had a sex therpaist. Both suggest masturbation.
i'm pretty much turned on by anything in all honesty. Seems crap to my wife but I think I've got an over active brain at times with regards to sex
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reader, Abella +, writes (18 July 2012):
in the interests of marital harmony buy yourself a fleshlight and you will enjoy far more control and be able to vary the intensity. Not sure of the website but i am sure you can google it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): Perhaps you're just so turned on by your wife other stimuli pale in comparison.
Seriously, if you haven't already, see your primary care physician or ask for a referral to a urologist regarding premature ejaculation. Masturbation may be right cure, wrong symptom.
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