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My wife and I have been happy for many years, but recently I have fantasied about my wife bringing men home, and having me pleasure them without me receiving any pleasure, I am not into bi-sexuality, but I can't explain this,does anyone have an answe

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Question - (11 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my wife and i have been very happy for many years. recently iv been having fantasies about her bringing home guys and forcing me to pleasure them and recieve no pleasure of my own. iv never been curious or bi until recently. she is very open and accepting and she doesnt have an answer to define whats going on with me. does anyone have an answer to whats going on in my head?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008):

It sounds like the idea of giving another man pleasure is appealing to you and having someone force you to do it takes away the guilt, if you are forced then you can say you aren't that way...bisexual. If you do it willingly it is undeniable that you are. Are you in denial?

The other option is that you have been watching too much porn.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008):

you just want to try something new and i guess gain the experience. you probably want to try it once and leave at that. you obviously love your wife,try discussing your intentions with her first before doing anything or she'll feel cheated on.

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