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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. The problem i'm having is he is very shy and polite, and hasn't even kissed me yet, but i'm very hormonal and am ready for so much more! I am most definitely NOT going to push him into anything he doesn't want to do, but is there any way to satisfy my sexual cravings? I masturbate at least 1-2 times per week, but i feel guilty every time and my boyfriend doesn't know! What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2012): Sounds like a gentleman . So he's a keeper . Take the move ! He will eventually follow I promise .
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reader, doublejack  +, writes (17 July 2012):
I will echo the advice to make a move. If this guy is a gentelmen, he could be waiting for you to move in for the first kiss and lead the physical escalation. This is particularly the case if he doesn't have a lot of experience.
I suggest the next time you are with him, you go to kiss him. Don't wait until the end of the evening, either. Do it kind of early on when there's an opportunity. Also subtle things like touching his leg, maybe on his thigh. Give him the green light and see where it leads.
Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2012): If you sit there and wait for him to make a move you'll probably be waiting a while. Have you tried initiating the first move? How long is a while? In terms of being together?Do you think he could be a closet homosexual?I know you said you don't want to put any pressure on him, but have you even attempted to ask him what's holding him back? Because shyness usually would wear off by the end of the first date not carry on and become a problem in the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2012): Um, how about YOU kiss him? This is 2012 you know. Equality and all that.
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