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writes:can some-one please advise meI was in a violent relationship before and I don't know if it's cos of my past or if this is a real problem. My partner swears at me on a constant basis, it's not that he calls me names or anything, it's more the way he speaks to me. For instance, my partner was in the bathroom this morning and I called from behind the door to ask if he was using the toilet.(If he was in the shower or shaving for instance, it would be ok for me to have a wee). I don't know what he said cos his answer involved the word f*****g, is this abusive or am I touchy cos of my past?Please help me :-)Sofi
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 It might just be that because of your past you are taking this the wrong way unfortunately some people do swear alot it's just what they are used to from the way they have been brought up, or the kind of work they have and the people they associate with.
Still if you are not happy with it try talking to him and telling him that he talking to you in that way even if it is not meant in a malious way it is upsetting to you and you would rather he did not speak to you in this way.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Hi love,
is he doing this on a regular basis and is it just pointed at you? Is he like this with others? sweetheart if i need a pee i just go for a pee i wouldnt get anything said to me. ive had abusive relationships i no where your coming from your on your guard, I dont blame you its hard to trust again isnt it.
He doesnt hit you or bully you in anyway mail me if you want to chat as you need trust in your relationship and you need to feel comfortable ok sweety lots of love xxxxxx
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