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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi am 7 months pregnant my partner is excited but has started drinking nearly every night he says he is stressed with work and baby!sometimes its ten cans and he cant make work next day.have tried being nice and understanding and also telling him will leave him-he says it will be better when baby is here but i dont know what to do any more.can anyone give me advice please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): hi thank you for your reply think you coud be right about it being something else as its got a lot worse past couple of days-have found out hehas been telling me lies,has spent all our money and didnt come home one night then very late last night-says he sat in a park! whenever i ask him anything he just keeps saying it will be ok-think am going mad!
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reader, green banana +, writes (4 August 2009):
hi, i have four children and my husband found it hard with the first it was hard for him to cope with the prospect of going from couple to family, i took him along to see the midwife and every appoinment relating to the pregnacy, the more he understood what was going on the better he got, he was just worred that he wouldn't know what to do or how to deal with things when baby came along, men are funny like that hes probably really worred and doesn't want to worry you! Unless its something compleatly diffrent and hes hiding behind baby and work (and if he doesn't say how can you help?!) then i think reasureing him hes going to be a great dad and getting someone else to chat to him about becoming a father may help. Good luck i know men aren't the most receptive creatures when it comes to emotions!
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