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My online boyfriend doesn't seem as keen as he used to be

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Question - (29 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2007)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, *ukky writes:

I met this man on the net, he promised me all what a lady will want. I trusted him. for more than 10 times he promised me but never fulfiled his promises. He hardly calls these days, when i call he complains of time difference (He is in New York while im in Nigeria). Where i work now there is no network but i can chat, he doesnt come online as he used to, when i asked he said he is busy. i am confused, i dont want to misunderstand him, i get so many guys askin for a relationship, i dont want to betray him, i dont know what to do.

i dont know if he doesnt want me again

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A female reader, bukky Nigeria +, writes (30 June 2007):

bukky is verified as being by the original poster of the question

deejuliet, thanks for ur advice.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (30 June 2007):

deejuliet agony auntHoney, find a real man in the real world and forget about this fantasy man who doesnt really exist. He made all sorts of promises at first because it is so easy to do. I dont think he ever had any intention of following through. It is just a game. Because it is on the net, it doesnt seem real and a man can be anything he wants to be, rather than who he really is. You really dont have a clue as to hir real personallity or character. Move on. Lesson learned.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntMove on i think it quite clear that he is no longer interested ,sorry.

Take care.xx.

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