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writes:My new girlfriend of 2 months as not been on her periods for a month. she went to the NHS walk in centre to do a test on a tuesday they told her to come bak friday she went bak friday they told her " the test says no but u still maybe pregnant so come bak next week " this time i said " i'm comeing with you " she told me " fine but your not comeing in the room with me " she went yeserday and the test says (NO) again. the nurse told my girlfriend she maybe gone by 3months and that is y the pregnancy test is not picking it up. ok thats a problem for me big time because if shes gone more than 3 months its not mine. 2months and i will say its mine all day long. but my girlfriend as only slept with 2 people this year her ex boyfriend 2 1/2 months ago and me (no comdoms) she made her ex wear them. i worked it out today if shes pregnant from her ex boyfriend it will be picking it up because she slept with him once and it was 2 week before we got 2gether so we been 2gether 2 months so its 2 months 2 weeks. so its no where near the 3months line.she told me she had a period after her ex boyfriend but none since shes got with me. ok i do have a problem i asked her if its is baby her ex's is she gonna keep it and tell her ex about it she said " yeah " but i'm uncool with that i'm 24 i want a kid so i look at this 2 say if she as is baby its not mine and i will have to wait a year or 2 before i get 1. and thats uncool but my girlfriend is now telling me because of the period it cant be her ex boyfriends and i'm thinking is she right?the nurse at the NHS walkin centre is working 3 months but working till the end of this month so shes working at the 3months of us. she told my girlfriend to go and see her doctor. what sould i do?can the baby be her ex boyfriends? she told me they had sex once he was wearing a comdom never had sex again till the past r/ship with sex was november. and then her ex and then me.i cnt afford a test and neither can my girlfriend we both dnt work. i'm doing my driveing lessions and my girlfriend loves her bed 2 much 2 move but on a good note where now talking about moveing in 2gether so thats a right move in my eyes.
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reader, love-him +, writes (12 May 2007):
 luk k, tell ur girlfriend that she should go to the doctor. what she needs is a scan. there are ALWAYS ways to find out if you are pregnant, trust me. and if she is pregnant, and it is your, you need to get a job. it is not easy bringin up a baby without having a job. and if she is pregnant she cant just 'love her bed' she needs to get up. so i suggest she goes to the doctors, you go with her just to make sure what the doctors/nurses say and if she asks y u want to go in then say, because you are worried and also want to listen to what the nurse is sayin cos it could be ur baby.
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